There are some things you can do mostly by just shifting your perspective that can help tremendously. For starters, I have seen a lot of women get caught up on this issue and as a result, they bring it up more and more, smothering every ounce of joy from the relationship. At that point the relationship stops being fun and full of happiness and starts becoming more like a battle of wills. My recommendation is to avoid badgering him about the topic.
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These partners view the world from a logical and often impersonal perspective and relationships are no exception. Not surprisingly, it can be difficult for their caring, warm, and more sensitive Feeling F counterparts to understand lovers who rarely show emotion, let alone affection. It can be tricky to navigate the meaning of the subtle signs that these partners leave like bread crumbs on your dates, but once you understand how this type of partner shows affection, you will find an abundance of love in those crumbs. Holding hands is out of the question. Holding hands is not practical. It slows people down, throws people off balance, and forces couples to walk in cadence.
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She is human and insecure. Reassure her that you are with her, you are appy with her, you would not give her up for this guy and you are a lesbian so why is she worried in the first place. As for this guy DJ, if he really is your guy friend then why haven't you shared your secret with him yet. If you are worried about him leaving then your friendship isn't that great. Tell him gently that you appretiate his attraction to you, that you are flattered, that he is a wonderful guy but that right now you do have someone in your life that you are very happy with and that you do not foresee you ending your relationship anytime soon with this person.
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